Infidelity has always existed going back as far as the records of
man earliest presence on earth. There is talk of a website, a dating site for married people who want to
have sex with other people. I won't give the name of the site because someone
may be reading this that’s married and ready to make a mistake. Those mistakes
will hurt you and everyone who loves you. So I won't take part in that. Here's
why:
Nothing in life is free, not even sex.
At some point in time along the way we pay for sex, married or not, just like everything else in life. Let me explain that. Sex comparatively speaking is like starting a fire. Picture a man or woman (alone) in the wilderness (life) and night fall (getting horny) is coming. This person knows they must prepare for it, so they plan (look for a partner) to make a fire using whatever they can find (someone) to do it with.
They find some soft dry cotton stuff (a person) in the forest, and they grab a dry twig, hollow out a larger piece of dry wood and place the cotton like stuff in the hollow hole (start touching one another). They put one end of the twig into the hole with the soft cotton and begin to roll it between both hands with open palms spinning the twig until smoke shows up (warm desire), and they become excited about the progress and spin the twig faster.
A small flame ignites and makes its appearance (the kiss), and they fan the flames (the kiss) until their fire gets hotter and bigger (heated passion).
Nothing in life is free, not even sex.
At some point in time along the way we pay for sex, married or not, just like everything else in life. Let me explain that. Sex comparatively speaking is like starting a fire. Picture a man or woman (alone) in the wilderness (life) and night fall (getting horny) is coming. This person knows they must prepare for it, so they plan (look for a partner) to make a fire using whatever they can find (someone) to do it with.
They find some soft dry cotton stuff (a person) in the forest, and they grab a dry twig, hollow out a larger piece of dry wood and place the cotton like stuff in the hollow hole (start touching one another). They put one end of the twig into the hole with the soft cotton and begin to roll it between both hands with open palms spinning the twig until smoke shows up (warm desire), and they become excited about the progress and spin the twig faster.
A small flame ignites and makes its appearance (the kiss), and they fan the flames (the kiss) until their fire gets hotter and bigger (heated passion).
They like the results of their effort and place more leaves, twigs
and wood into the flames until a full blown fire is achieved (sex). The fire
(sex) is warm and soothing. It feels good, and it keeps animals away, and at
the same time it puts out light that can bring help to rescue them from (being
alone) the woods. They feel comforted and relaxed in the heat (sex), and fall
asleep.
When they awake, the whole forest around them (their life) is on fire.
Help is on the way, but they started a forest fire to get it, and the fire is so hot, burning them and the forest (life) around them.
When they awake, the whole forest around them (their life) is on fire.
Help is on the way, but they started a forest fire to get it, and the fire is so hot, burning them and the forest (life) around them.
Even in marriage every so often a couple must renew their interest
in the relationship or the flame will burn low and can go out if something isn't
done. This too will affect your life in the long run.
Being single is different in that multiple partners are experienced (each with their own highs and lows just like marriage), and you can be playing it well, by the "players" book, but it's only a matter of time before trouble (karma) finds you.
If you don't believe me take a look around you at the people you know. Look at the celebs in the news. What is the answer? How do we navigate the spiny road of sexual desire?
After all it's really just our nature.
We can't stop nature!
Well, there is another way. We can keep nature in check by being aware of its flammable ingredients and make choices intelligently and respectful of ourselves and others, particularly during marriage. Even if the marriage is no fun anymore. Sex is fire and we burn when we go without it, there's no getting around that. But if you keep in mind it's not free, there might be something in that way of thinking that helps keep us sexually smarter and the repercussions of our sexual activities at a minimal.
Being single is different in that multiple partners are experienced (each with their own highs and lows just like marriage), and you can be playing it well, by the "players" book, but it's only a matter of time before trouble (karma) finds you.
If you don't believe me take a look around you at the people you know. Look at the celebs in the news. What is the answer? How do we navigate the spiny road of sexual desire?
After all it's really just our nature. We can't stop nature!
Well, there is another way. We can keep nature in check by being aware of its flammable ingredients and make choices intelligently and respectful of ourselves and others, particularly during marriage. Even if the marriage is no fun anymore. Sex is fire and we burn when we go without it, there's no getting around that. But if you keep in mind it's not free, there might be something in that way of thinking that helps keep us sexually smarter and the repercussions of our sexual activities at a minimal.
Tip: Create your own metaphors by your own rules using this post. Read the words in parenthesis and create sentences that
do not include the forest.
Examples:
Examples:
Alone, look for a partner, someone to do it with.
Find a person and start touching one another and warm desire shows
up.
The kiss ignites a small flame that gets bigger and becomes a
heated passion.
Sex! Sex is warm. It feels good, now relax, fall asleep, and awake
to a life in flames.
These sentences are all present in the post you just read. How sexually oriented are you? Can you create more sentences using only the text above or only the words in parenthesis?
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